(psst, i don't mean to butt in, but i think she was cataloguing items in a list and separating them with commas as opposed to defining you as a well-meaning but misinformed online friend. i think they're separate categories. <3 just clearing up a misunderstanding. i'm by no means discrediting anything else you have to say or anything she has to say in return, but when it comes to that particular incident, she's not calling you "a well-meaning but misinformed online friend", but rather defining that as another category, like pome*. take care, you. <3)