Agree. (I'm reminded of why saying, "I want good characterization," is so tempting and yet so hopeless, because people who write outrageously ooc fic... don't do it on purpose). And I'm okay, even, with, "I don't want this character crying/sharing his feelings/wearing a pink backpack, since he doesn't in canon. (I wouldn't be interested in such a character most likely, but that's the your-tastes-are-not-my-tastes issue.) I think it's the shorthanding of "teenage girl" = "all that is awful."